Her Turn

Her Turn is the podcast for women navigating life after divorce, who know there's more to this chapter than simply healing, rebuilding and getting through.

Hosted by life coach and mentor, Dani Hanlon, each episode explores the conversations that too often get overlooked after divorce: identity, confidence and mindset, recognising what fits in your life now – and what doesn’t, saying ‘yes’ to all the right things, and intentionally creating a future that feels exciting to wake up to.

If your divorce is behind you, life is finally feeling stable again, and you've caught yourself wondering, ‘What do I want more of now?’ – you’re absolutely in the right place.

Because moving on isn’t where your journey ends. It's where everything starts to get interesting again.

New episodes each week.

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Episodes

2 hours ago

22 min

You've rebuilt your life after divorce, found your feet, created new routines and started feeling like yourself again.
 
But creating your next chapter is only part of the story.
 
How do you protect the woman you've worked so hard to become?
 
In this final episode of the Happily Ever After Divorce series, Dani explores what it really takes to hold onto the life you're intentionally creating - protecting your peace, your time, your standards and the things that make you feel most alive, even when life invites you back to old patterns.
 
This episode explores:
Why protecting your next chapter is just as important as creating it.
Dani’s frameworks and exercises designed to help you intentionally curate your life.
Why your calendar might reveal more about your priorities than your vision board.
What it means to consciously author your life, instead of simply maintaining it.
 
Join Dani for the Happily Ever After Divorce Telegram week
If this series has resonated with you, I invite you to join the Happily Ever After Divorce Telegram week - a free seven-day mentoring experience inside an exclusive Telegram community, where we'll take these conversations beyond the podcast, help you integrate and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks from the outside.
 
Registrations are now open – Telegram week starts Monday, 3 August 2026.  Secure your place in this space, free, HERE.
 
Register today and you'll receive immediate access to Dani's guided Cord Cutting meditation, downloadable today and designed to help you release what no longer belongs in this chapter and create space for what's next.
 
Connect with Dani on Instagram (@coached.by.dani) HERE and find out more about Dani and the work she does guiding women to create their best chapter yet after divorce HERE.
 
 

6 days ago

21 min

What if you're not actually waiting for your next chapter...what if you're already creating it?
 
In episode three of the Happily Ever After Divorce series, Dani explores why the future you're hoping for isn't something you stumble across - but build through the decisions you make every single day.
 
If you've been waiting for clarity, confidence or the ‘right time’ before making a change, this episode will challenge the way you've been thinking about what's possible after divorce.
 
You'll discover why tiny decisions matter more than big breakthroughs, how to stop living on autopilot, and three simple frameworks to help you start intentionally creating the life you're ready for.
 
Happily Ever After Divorce
This episode is part of Happily Ever After Divorce - a four-part series on Her Turn for the woman who has rebuilt after divorce and ready to create a life that doesn't just look good, but feels incredible to live.
 
Alongside the podcast, you're invited to join a complimentary 7-day mentoring experience with Dani inside an exclusive Telegram community, where you'll receive voice notes, journal prompts, coaching frameworks and practical exercises to help you put these conversations into action.
 
Registrations are now open – Telegram week starts Monday, 3 August.
Secure your place in this space, free, HERE.
 
Register today and you'll also receive immediate access to Dani's guided Cord Cutting meditation, downloadable today and designed to help you release what no longer belongs in this chapter and create space for what's next.
 
Connect with Dani on Instagram (@coached.by.dani) HERE and find out more about Dani and the work she does HERE.

Jul 3, 2026

28 min

In Episode 2 of the Happily Ever After Divorce series, Dani explores why creating a successful life after divorce doesn't automatically create a life that feels exciting to live. Discover the difference between building a life that looks good on paper and intentionally creating one that feels rich, meaningful and deeply yours.
 
Dani shares three practical coaching frameworks and reflective exercises you can use to help move beyond simply maintaining your life and start creating ‘more’ - more joy, curiosity, connection and memorable experiences - in this next chapter.
 
Happily Ever After Divorce
This is the second episode of Happily Ever After Divorce - a four-part podcast series for the woman whose divorce is behind her, whose life is good, and who is ready to discover what's possible for her next.
 
Alongside this series, you're invited to join a complimentary 7-day mentoring experience inside an exclusive Telegram community, where Dani shares daily coaching, journal prompts, reflections and practical tools to help you create a life that feels as good to you as it looks.
 
Registrations are now open – Telegram week opens Monday, 3 August.
Secure your place in this space, free, HERE.
 
Register today and you'll also receive immediate access to Dani's guided Cord Cutting meditation, downloadable today and designed to help you release what no longer belongs in this chapter and create space for what's next.
 
Connect with Dani on Instagram (@coached.by.dani) HERE and find out more about getting inside Dani’s world HERE.
 

Jun 29, 2026

21 min

You've rebuilt after divorce. Life is good.
So why does it still feel like something's missing?
 
In episode one of the Happily Ever After Divorce series, Dani unpacks the ways women often settle after divorce without realising it, how ‘unconscious maintenance’ quietly keeps you playing small, and offers powerful questions to help you recognise what no longer fits the woman you’ve become.
 
Happily Ever After Divorce
This special four-part series is for the woman who's moved beyond survival and is ready to stop simply maintaining the life she's built and start intentionally creating what comes next.
 
Register for the Happily Ever After Divorce experience and receive a complimentary 7-day mentoring experience with Dani inside an exclusive Telegram community.
BONUS - when you register you'll receive immediate access to Dani's guided Cord Cutting meditation, designed to help let go of what no longer serves you in this chapter and make room for what will.
Registrations are now open, secure your place here. Doors open 3 August 2026. 
 
Connect with Dani
On Instagram @coached.by.dani hereExplore Dani’s mentoring and coaching here
 
 

Jun 8, 2026

18 min

In this week’s Her Turn episode, Dani explores a subtle but powerful pattern many women experience after divorce or a major life shift - when life feels stable, but something still feels slightly out of alignment.
 
The kids are okay.Work’s okay.Life has found its rhythm again.
 
And yet, there’s a quiet sense that the real enjoyment and freedom will come later.
 
Not because you’re unhappy, but because you’ve unconsciously attached joy, adventure, and self-expression to future conditions that keep moving.
 
In this episode, Dani unpacks:
Why women delay enjoyment and self-prioritisation after divorce and life transitions
The invisible conditions we attach to happiness (and why they feel so logical)
How the brain uses certainty and control to delay change
Why ‘later’ often becomes a moving target
The cost of postponing experiences, desires, and parts of yourself
What shifts when you stop waiting for the ‘right’ version of you
 
This isn’t about overhauling your life. It’s about noticing where you’ve been waiting and gently questioning whether you still need to.
 
Because life isn’t actually on hold, you might just be living as if it is.
 
Work with Dani
Find how to work with Dani and go deeper into this work here.
 
From focused 90-minute mentoring sessions to private 1:1 sessions over 12 weeks, Dani’s work is designed to help you stop postponing your life and start consciously shaping a version that feels aligned, intentional, and fully yours.
 

May 24, 2026

13 min

In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the subtle ways old dynamics continue shaping your life after divorce. Because while life may look different externally, many women find themselves still operating from the same emotional patterns they carried inside their marriage - often without realising it.
 
Today’s conversation is about becoming aware of the unconscious ways your old identity may still be influencing key areas of your life, from your relationships to work, dating and even how you’re prioritising (or not!) yourself.
 
In this episode, Dani deep dives into:
Why patterns don’t disappear just because the relationship ended
The hidden ways specific patterns may be showing up post-divorce
Why familiar dynamics can feel safer than aligned ones
How old relationship conditioning affects dating, friendships and work
Why awareness, not perfection, is the first step to change
The small shifts that help you create a life that genuinely feels like yours
 
This one is for the woman who knows she’s ready for more than simply ‘moving on’.  She’s ready to intentionally build a new chapter that feels good, expansive and deeply her own.
 
Ready to work with Dani? From a 90 minute online intensive session to a deeply transformative 12 week 1:1 container, find the coaching support you’re looking for here.
Connect with Dani on Instagram: @coached.by.dani
If this episode resonated, share it with another woman navigating her next chapter after divorce and follow Her Turn for more conversations around identity, self-leadership, confidence and creating a life you’re genuinely excited to wake up to.

May 18, 2026

18 min

In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the connection between identity, self-leadership and the standards shaping your future. Often, the issue isn’t that your vision is too big - it’s that your habits, environments, relationships and behaviours reflect, and were built within, a smaller life.
 
Inside this episode Dani explains:
Why women often lower their standards instead of raising them
The role self-leadership plays in creating a beautiful life
What raising your standards looks like in real life
How your relationships, mindset and daily choices shape your future
Why your baseline determines what feels “normal”
The small decisions that quietly move your life forward - or keep you stuck
 
If you’re in a season of reinvention, personal growth and intentionally creating your next chapter, this episode help you look honestly at whether your standards are supporting or holding back, the life you say you want.
 
Discover the ways you can work with Dani here and join her community on Instagram here
If you love this episode, subscribe to the Her Turn podcast and share today’s conversation with a woman ready to stop shrinking her vision and start leading her life differently.

May 10, 2026

25 min

There’s a version of you that can feel her life expanding, even if she hasn’t fully figured out what that looks like yet.
 
In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the uncomfortable middle of reinvention: the season where you’ve outgrown old versions of yourself, but the woman you’re becoming still feels unfamiliar.
 
If you’ve rebuilt after divorce, heartbreak or one of life’s tougher seasons and now find yourself wanting more - more alignment, more confidence, more self-trust, a bigger life that actually feels like yours - this episode is for you.
 
Inside this episode, Dani explores:
Why identity shifts can feel emotionally uncomfortable even when they’re right for you
Why women often feel pulled back toward old versions of themselves during growth
The psychology behind familiarity, self-sabotage and subconscious resistance
How your nervous system responds to expansion and uncertainty
Why reinvention can feel lonely, destabilising and deeply uncomfortable at first
The mindset shifts that keep you moving forward when your old identity wants you to stay the same
 
Because becoming someone new rarely feels natural in the beginning. And sometimes reinvention looks like outgrowing old patterns, sometimes it looks like questioning everything, sometimes it looks like standing in the space between who you were and who you’re becoming next.
 
Because, honestly, your next chapter was never meant to be built by the version of you that only knew survival.
 
Ready for deeper support?  Explore ways to work with Dani here.

May 4, 2026

25 min

In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores identity shifts after major life transitions - and what it really takes to outgrow the roles, patterns and coping strategies that once kept you safe, but no longer fit the life you’re trying to build.
 
This episode is for the woman who knows she wants more - more peace, more confidence, more self-trust, more of herself - but can feel how much of her life is still being run by old identities, old conditioning, and outdated ways of coping.
 
Dani unpacks what identity really is, why so many women stay loyal to versions of themselves they’ve already outgrown, and what it takes to start becoming the woman your next chapter actually requires.
 
Because becoming someone new isn’t dramatic, it’s deliberate. And this is where that shift begins.
 
Work With DaniIf you’re ready to stop circling the same patterns and start creating real change, there are a few ways to step into this work with Dani.
 
Explore Dani’s 1:1 coaching, 90 minute Reset sessions and free resources here
Her TurnBecause it’s finally your turn - to rebuild, realign, and create a life that actually feels like yours.

Apr 27, 2026

29 min

You can have the life you want - but first you need to get radically honest about what your current reality is reflecting back to you.
 
In this week’s episode of Her Turn, Dani unpacks the uncomfortable truth most women avoid: your life isn’t just happening to you, it’s responding to what you believe is possible, what your nervous system feels safe holding and what you’ve unconsciously become available for.
 
This conversation explores why so many high-achieving women stay stuck in familiar patterns after divorce, burnout or a major life reset - even when they know they want more.
 
Dani gets into the science behind why your brain defaults to what’s familiar, how your attention shapes what your mind looks for, and why the life you say you want won’t land until your standards, decisions and energy start matching it.
 
If you’ve been craving more from your next chapter - more ease, more clarity, more alignment, more life - but your reality still feels stuck in old patterns, this episode will show you where to start.
 
Work with DaniReady to close the gap between where you are and what you know is available to you? Explore ways to work with me here: https://go.danihanlon.com/linktree-main
 
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